Tuesday, August 23, 2011

My Childhood Choir Director, of blessed memory

I recently heard that Teddy Silbermintz, Choir Director at my elementary school who recruited me to be in his High Holiday shul choir, passed away recently. First I heard it from Fran & then yesterday I received an email out of the blue from his daughter, Sandra Silbermintz.

I really haven't spoken to the man since 1975. I don't think we've had any contact since I left his choir in 9th grade, but the more I think about it, the more I realize the impact he had on me & what turned out to be my career.

I sang in his High Holiday choir for 5 years. For 5 years from 5th grade thru 9th grade I left my family for Rosh Hashana & Yom Kippur. For 2 years we sang in East Flatbush in Rabbi JJ Hecht's shul. I believe I stayed in the shul one year & one year with Tillie & Lou Fisch who lived in that neighborhood. Then for 3 years we sang at the Brighton Beach Jewish Center which coincidentally was where my parents got married. The Chazan there was & amazingly still is, Herzl Pineles, whom I have recently been in touch with thru the CCA Conventions. It was he that I first saw walk down the aisle while singing "Hinneni".

I think I used to get paid $75 & then when I became a soloist, maybe $100. Back then Selichos night the shul would be packed & it would take a good 2 & a half hrs. The ladies still used to cry during davening.

I guess I was a bridge connecting the tail end of the previous generation of old-timers to the current generation where so much has changed.

I wish I was in contact with the other kids in the choir. I often search on Facebook for those few names that I remember, but haven't stumbled on anyone yet.

Nothing humorous or cute here, but I just wanted to put this down in writing somewhere & share this with the family.

Hope all you Yankees survived the Great Earthquake of 2011. I just had this vision of Meir about to miss the winning putt when the earthquake hit causing the ball to double back & sink that "eagle".

Click here to read email exchange with Sandra Silbermintz.

2 comments:

  1. Wow Abba, both the e-mail and the post you put up are very nice. Don't you have to write an article for the inside ASBEE around yomin noraim every year ( I remember when you wrote about becoming a zaidy when Yossi was born). This seems like a good type of thing to write in an article around that time. Just a thought. Love ya and miss ya! We don't have any natural disasters here bli ayin hara, just record August heat of 116 degrees.

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  2. I emailed Sandra but haven't heard from her yet. suri - Isn't a sand storm considered a natural disaster? or maybe a phenomenon

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